I love the first tip. Identifiers are great conversation starters. I try to share a compliment and ask a question whenever I see someone with something really cool, pretty, etc. like an interesting scarf or a significant-looking bracelet. Something like, “I like your threaded bracelet, does the symbol on the charm/color of the bead mean something?”

After 1 day my fears quickly faded away. I found that people wanted to talk to me, and meeting other travelers was incredibly easy. I found out that other solo travelers and you share a common bond. You are both vulnerable, yet adventurous and willing to step outside your comfort zone. Just those two commonalities is enough to create a great conversation and how I quickly gained several lasting friendships.

You just got to get out there (and put yourself out there) and you will see that your traveling for a reason, and that just may be to find yourself. Another outstanding post on a topic that many (most) travelers can relate with.

My biggest tip (not that anyone asked me haha) is for the more extroverted traveler, always attempt to start a dialogue/acknowledge/or at least smile or say hi to more introverted or quiet travelers. It often doesn’t mean a person is shy, but just that they’re waiting for someone to talk about something they actually find interesting. Kind of like making the first move in a dating scenario! Making friends is no different lol.
And also respect that some travelers – like Vanessa – may suffer from anxiety and need space in addition to new friends. Keep a dialogue going at the hostel, ask how their day went, even if they don’t immediately want to hang out or are traveling with a friend.

Finally, never take it personally if people aren’t keen on hanging out. You win some, you loose some, but at least you know you contributed to bring good vibes on holidays with you!

Thanks again Vanessa!